Yes. Abuse does not discriminate by gender. Male survivors—especially those in the LGBTQ+ community—often face emotional, physical, sexual, or financial abuse. The problem is real, and your experience is valid.
Abuse can involve control, manipulation, isolation, threats of outing, stalking, or forced sexual contact. It may not always look like physical violence. Psychological abuse is just as damaging.
If you feel afraid, constantly blamed, monitored, degraded, or manipulated—especially in a way that makes you question your reality or worth—those are strong signs. Abuse is about power and control, not just bruises.
Absolutely. Many survivors aren’t ready to leave, or can’t safely do so yet. We support you where you are now and help you plan for safety at your pace.
We do. And you’re not alone. Many male survivors are dismissed or mocked when they speak up. That’s exactly why we exist—to listen, validate, and support you without judgment.
Yes. We only connect you with trauma-informed, LGBTQ+-competent professionals. Your identity will be affirmed—not questioned, pathologized, or erased.
That’s a form of abuse and coercion. We can help you navigate this safely and connect you to legal and emotional resources to protect your privacy and well-being.
Yes. We prioritize your safety. Any contact you make with us is confidential, and we’ll help you communicate and store information in ways that don’t jeopardize your safety.
Depending on your needs, we can connect you to emergency shelter, legal aid, crisis counseling, safety planning, and financial assistance. We also offer hotline and text-based support.
You still have rights. Abuse is never acceptable, regardless of status. We work with legal partners who understand the risks and protections specific to immigrant survivors.
Yes. We’ll help you access affirming, culturally aware therapists who understand male and LGBTQ+ trauma, not just check the box on gender or orientation.
Clear search histories, use incognito mode, disable location sharing, and change passwords frequently. We can also provide a digital safety checklist tailored to your situation.
It happens far too often. We’ll guide you through documentation, advocate on your behalf when possible, and connect you with legal support trained to work with male and LGBTQ+ survivors.
Yes. Narcissistic abuse involves patterns of manipulation, gaslighting, and emotional control. We offer resources and support groups specifically for survivors of coercive control.
That’s your right. We offer anonymous support options, and we’ll never pressure you to disclose more than you’re ready to share.
Yes. We’re building peer-led support groups, both online and in person, that center male and LGBTQ+ survivors in a safe, validating environment.
Yes. We serve people across the U.S. and work with remote-access providers. Wherever you are, we’ll find ways to get you support.
Yes. Abuse can be emotional, verbal, financial, or sexual. If your relationship is marked by control, fear, or harm, it matters—and so do you.
Yes. While we respond to urgent needs, we also support healing and rebuilding—through therapy referrals, housing support, legal advocacy, and survivor storytelling.
Listen without judgment, affirm their feelings, avoid pushing them to act before they’re ready, and gently offer information. Direct them to trauma-informed, survivor-focused resources like ours.
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If you have further questions or concerns, please don’t hesitate to reach out. We’re here to listen, support, and guide you toward the help you deserve.